AMBER CANTORNA-WYLDE

Amber Cantorna-Wylde (she/her) is a national speaker, consultant, and community healer passionate about ending religious trauma for LGBTQ+ people and fostering a world of acceptance and belonging.

She’s the author of three books, including her newest release Out of Focus: My Story of Sexuality, Shame, and Toxic Evangelicalism (WJK Press, 2023) and the first coming-out guide for LGBTQ people of faith Unashamed (WJK Press, 2019). She is the founder and host of the Unashamed Love Collective ~ a beautiful and inclusive membership-based online community for LGBTQ+ people and allies. She also leads Cultivating Community Retreats—small, intimate group gatherings that build lasting relationships with like-minded people.

Amber’s expertise has led her to speak across the country, contract for Fortune 500 companies, be a consultant for churches, and curate events for national leaders. She’s also been featured in numerous podcasts and writing mediums.

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Out of Focus:
My Story of Sexuality, Shame, and Toxic Evangelicalism

When a mass shooter killed five people in an LGBTQ nightclub in Colorado Springs, grieving people graffitied James Dobson’s Focus on the Family headquarters with the words “Their blood is on your hands.” Such an accusation comes as no surprise to Amber Cantorna-Wylde, whose father is a Focus on the Family executive and cast Amber out of her family when she came out in 2012. From severed family ties to malicious murder, such enmity is the fruit of a religious movement that considers it more faithful to reject your child or even to kill than to accept and love LGBTQ+ people. Evangelical organizations like Dobson’s, along with pastors like Jerry Falwell, Franklin Graham, and Robert Jeffress, built an empire out of their conservative Christian beliefs and convinced millions of Americans that sexual purity, patriarchal families, and militaristic nationalism were God’s priority. Cantorna-Wylde shows readers how the political and personal intertwine to cause shame and suffering that Jesus would never desire, including the long-term effects of identity-repression, trauma, and family estrangement. A blend of heart-wrenching memoir and astute cultural analysis, Out of Focus will help heal individuals harmed by evangelicalism’s toxic influence and inspire Christian communities to pursue a path of love and inclusion.

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